31 July 2010

Yay, Katie!

I've been putting Katie on the toilet for the past 6 months or so.  She has never had a problem with sitting on it, but has never actually "gone." But, this morning, she took the initiative of taking off her own diaper and sitting on it without me even prompting her.  She then peed in it!   Yay, Katie!

11 July 2010

HELP

Aaron and I just got the script for the preview performance of Love on the Prairie.  We're understudying the leads for the second preview performance, as the leading man can't be there (they are having us do it as a couple, although the lead girl could have been there).

Anyway, the script is an hour long.  My part is not too bad, but Aaron has about double the lines that I have.  He's a bit nervous.  The leads have been working on these lines for a few weeks already, and now we're getting this with less than two weeks to go.  We only have one song to learn, but I'd rather learn songs than lines.  This is going to be an interesting next two weeks.

Birthday Fun and Random Updates

On Saturday, the Kukachka clan came over for our annual "cousins party."  This is where we celebrate all of the kids' birthdays at once, so we don't have to all try to get together for each birthday, as that was getting really complicated, with so many kids.

This year, it was held on Connie's birthday.  She turned 29 again this year. ;-)  She said that Luke (her youngest) wished her a "Happy Father's Day" instead of a "Happy Birthday."  I hope she enjoyed the day.  It occurred to me afterward that we should have sung to her.  We normally sing to everyone when we do cake, but this year we did s'mores instead, and I totally spaced the singing part.

During the party, some of the younger kids noticed a chirping sound coming from the storm sewer in the back of our yard.  They checked it out, and it turned out there was a robin stuck down there.   I laid out some thin pieces of wood for it to climb up on, but they were too steep.  On the third try (and once the robin realized I was trying to help, not poke it), when it got on the wood, I thought to use leverage to slowly lift the bird up to the top of the grate.  When it got to the top, it hopped across the grate, then sang to me for a minute or so before leaving for the next yard.  I felt very well-thanked.  I noticed then that it had a fuzzy head, and wasn't fully grown yet.  It hopped a few feet away, and then a momma bird came out from behind a tree and hopped over to it, gave it a few pecks, and led it back over to the tree.  What a fun experience!

Today, William threw up in church.  I'm hoping it was just a reaction to so much junk food yesterday.  I really can't afford a sick family this week, as it is going to be a busy one.  We have rehearsal Mon., Tues. and Thurs. nights.  Wednesday afternoon I have my advising and registration session at Normandale.  Wednesday night Aaron, Kelly Ammott and I will be rehearsing our song for Sacrament Meeting next Sunday.  After that, the Ammotts are going to help me de-bone 10 rotisserie chickens for the zone conference luncheon I'm putting on for 75 missionaries on Thursday.  I will also be doing most of the shopping for the luncheon tomorrow or Tuesday, depending on whether I get my couponing done early enough to get out tomorrow.  And that's just my schedule.  There's plenty more going on for the kids, too.  I'm in for a busy week, but I'm up for busy this week - provided we don't have a whole wave of stomach flu.

06 July 2010

Disturbed

This morning at 2:45am in Eagan, a 3-year-old child was found walking along Highway 55.  At 5:30am, his parents discovered he was missing and called the police.  They said he got out by using an electric garage door opener.  The child is being held by social services for the next 72 hours while they investigate the parents.

This doesn't seem fair to me.  In fact, it outright disturbs me.  I thought that there must be something the article didn't say, like the parents looked like they were stoned or something when they came to get their child.  So, I called Dakota County social services to find out.  They told me that they don't just do this, that the police have to tell them to take the child into custody and do an investigation.  They suggested I talk to the police.  So I called them.  They said that when they can't find the parents, they place the child with social services, and have no control over when the child is released.  "That's funny," I said. "Social services just told me it was the other way around."

This could happen to you or me.  In fact, I am awfully lucky it hasn't happened to me.  I have had three-year-olds escape the house by going into the garage (the door of which they figured out how to open, despite the child safety doorknob), finding a car door unlocked, and opening the garage with the opener on the visor, just as they have seen me do.  I have had a three-year-old sneak out after dusk, when I thought he was asleep, only to have a neighbor call and tell me that my child is two blocks entertaining a crowd of people, including the sheriff.

I told the person at the Eagan police department that I thought that it was unfair to keep a 3-year-old from his parents for three days for escaping home without another reason.  She told me that there are unexpensive things a person can do to keep their child from escaping the house.  I told her that nothing is ever foolproof, and that this just isn't right.  She told me that she had gotten my voice mail, and that she really didn't need to further the conversation.  As I hadn't called her previously, I told her that this was my first call, and this just shows that other people are concerned with this, as well.

I got off the phone feeling like this isn't really the free country we think it is.  I cried.

I am afraid for the day when Katie figures out how to use a child safety doorknob.

02 July 2010

William's Arrow of Light


William earned his arrow of light at our last pack meeting. We are so proud of him! He still has the rest of the summer to earn some more compass points, and then he will join the 11-year-old scouts program in September. Congratulations, Will!
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01 July 2010

New Blog - Need Name Ideas!

I want to start a public blog with coupon and sale specials for the Waconia area.  Does anyone have a great idea for a name?

17 June 2010

A Little Good News

Aaron and I auditioned for CVFT's melodrama, "Love on the Prairie," on Monday.  I found out tonight that we both got parts as townspeople.  Aaron has some lines, and I have some solos.  Very exciting!

The director called to ask if our kids could be in it, too.  We were hoping they would ask!  The younger five will all be participating, although Katie and Aidan will be starting out on a trial basis to see if they can handle it.  William and Dallin are extremely excited about it.  Ben wasn't so sure he wanted to be in it, but when I explained what a melodrama is, he changed his mind.  Tristin and Brandon won't be involved, as they have scout camp the 2nd week of the run, and they preferred that to being in a musical.  Maybe someday they'll change their minds, like after seeing this melodrama.  ;-)

Rehearsals will be Mondays, Tuesdays and Thursdays for six weeks, starting next week.  The show runs July 30, 31, and August 5, 6, 7, 8.

Did I mention I'm excited?  It is so great that so many of the kids will be able to participate with us!

Show Choir

As I may have mentioned, Tristin made it into The Current, which is Waconia High School's JV show choir. They are having an awesome fundraiser for people who shop at Kwik Trip. The school was able to purchase gift cards at a 10% discount. You pay full price for the gift card, and use the entire face value of your purchase. Tristin gets 10% of your purchase deposited into his choir account. For example, you buy a $100 gift card for $100. You get to spend $100. Tristin gets $10 in his choir account. You lose nothing, and Tristin gains $10. As show choir will cost $675, this is a great deal for us, especially since we already buy gas, milk, eggs, bread and bananas at Kwik Trip.


If you would like to purchase a gift card, let me know what denomination you would like. I believe they come in $25, 50 and $100.

16 June 2010

What I did with coupons today...

Aaron, Tristin and Brandon took off with Reo (Aaron's Dad) for the Boundary Waters this afternoon. As always happens when Aaron strands me with young children, I got fidgety and needed something to spend my mental strength on. As I was browsing through the Freebies 2 Deals website, I noticed a bunch of Walgreens deals that I could make some money on.


Don't I mean save money on?

No, I really do mean make money on.

Offer #1: The Schick Hydro 3 Blade Razor System has a $4 Register Rewards offer on it. Plus, I printed out a rebate form for a free Schick Hydro 3 Blade Razor System here: http://www.schickhydro.com/freehydro/. You'll need to send in the UPC and the original receipt with the rebate form.

So, I got a free Razor, and will get $4 toward my next purchase at Walgreens.

Offer #2: Like Grape Nuts, Shredded Wheat or Raisin Bran? It is on sale for $1.99 right now. If you go to http://www.postnatural.com/ you can get a coupon for $2 off a box of one of these cereals.

I came out with a free box of cereal and $.01.

Offer #3: Listerine Whitening Mouthwash is $5.49 at my store right now. There is a $1 off manufacturer's coupon here: http://print.coupons.com/couponweb/Offers.aspx?pid=14997&zid=iq55&nid=10&bid=alk061620065630f57109e7015. You'll have to scroll through a few pages to get to it. There are some other goodies on the way, so check-mark anything else off that you'd like to print out. They'll all print on the same page. Also, pick up a Walgreens in-store ad when you walk in, or if you don't want to trust that there will be one, you can print off a $3 off Listerine store coupon at http://www.walgreens.com/default.jsp. Just click on the Weekly Ad tab on the upper right of the screen, and look through the pages until you find it. Once you have done all of that printing, there's one more thing. Ring this through on a separate transaction than the razor. You will need the receipt. Mail the receipt, along with your name and address, to Dare to Wear Gift, P.O. Box 4938, NY, NY 10185. This rebate offer was in a magazine, and no rebate form was required. They will send you a $10 Visa gift card.

So, I got free mouthwash and made $8.51.

Wasn't that fun? Okay, I also had to pay for two postage stamps, two envelopes, and a few pieces of paper and ink, but after all of that I made over $11 in an hour, tax-free. I call that a pretty good run.

Now that it is done, I will go absorb myself in a book until I am so sleepy that I can fall asleep without Aaron next to me.

I just put a Sunday Coupon Preview widget on the bottom of my blog. I'm going to start looking at it and purchasing the Early Sunday edition on Saturday nights, when I think it will be worth it. I could get used to this whole making money at the store thing.

06 June 2010

Stake Conference with C. Scott Grow

C. Scott Grow is an excellent teacher. He brings power with him when he speaks. He also likes putting people on the spot. For example, me. With no notice, at the Saturday evening adult session of our stake conference, he called me up to the stand to give a talk on how to be a mother of seven children when your husband is on the high council and travels a lot, and to bear my testimony.


I'm just glad I had an answer for his question. It was to rely on the Lord, and to be consistent in family scriptures and prayers and FHE, even when Dad isn't around. It was to have a husband who is constantly teaching our family, and who interviews the children individually monthly, going over their goals and talking about how things are going.

It was fun. :-) After I returned to my seat, he had the ushers bring microphones down the aisles and asked everyone to discuss the principles I had taught in my talk. He called on about 10 people.

I really enjoyed the night, despite the impromptu talk. When he finished the discussion, he spoke for a few minutes, and then turned the time over for some questions and answers. He gave inspired answers to inspired questions. It was the most spiritual experience I have ever had in a church meeting. I learned a lot from it.


02 June 2010

The Other Plan

I have spent the evening stewing after yet another Scout Court of Honor where my children were missing multiple awards. I have been thinking that if I were the bishop, I'd replace the Scoutmaster with someone who could do it right. If it were me (which it couldn't be, seeing as how it is kind of a gender-specific role), I would make sure that all of the boys got their Scoutmaster Conferences in the month before the Court of Honor. I would make sure that all of the records were updated in Troopmaster, and that all of the awards were picked up from the Scout Shop. Then, I wouldn't have to watch Brandon be disappointed for an entire year while his Boy Scout badge was not awarded to him, and also not get the merit badge he earned over the winter. I wouldn't have to watch Tristin be disappointed when he only got two out of three of his completed merit badges.


Wouldn't it be nice if I could just fire everyone and do it the right way myself?

After stewing over it for a few hours, I realized that this situation is similar to another situation, and that this plan is probably the wrong plan. Lucifer thought that forcing everything to go right would make Heavenly Father's children happy. But Heavenly Father knew that everyone needed to be tried and tested in order to progress. Everyone needed opportunities to grow through experiences like these. While I can't excuse the behavior of leaders who can't get their act together, they have to be given the opportunity to succeed or fail. Sometimes, failures affect the innocent. Heavenly Father doesn't shield us from the effects of the mistakes others make, but herein lies a test. How do we react?

I was tempted to go to the bishop and firmly suggest that these leaders get replaced, or my kids will join the other troop in Waconia. They've been screwing up the Boy Scout program nicely for two or three years now, so couldn't they be released? Aaron suggested we just let our feet do the talking. After Brandon checked out the awards on the table, and I confirmed that his was not being awarded tonight with another leader, Aaron asked Brandon if he wanted to sit through another Court of Honor, or go home? He chose going home. He had homework to finish, and he didn't really want to waste his evening. So Aaron took him home.

I suppose that these things will eventually straighten themselves out, and that he will be able to get his awards next time. But in the meantime, we won't be forcing our children to waste their time waiting for other people to get their acts together. If a patrol meeting is worthwhile, they will go to it. If not, they won't be forced to go. We've had enough of going to every single lousy meeting our church puts out just to support the program. We've had enough of supporting mediocrity.

Oh, another funny thing - Brandon had a 10 minute patrol meeting before he left, prior to the Court of Honor. They made him patrol leader. What's funny about that? There isn't another patrol meeting before he turns 12 and moves up a patrol.

Bread

My friend Analisa came over last week, and we made bread together. She has a great recipe that is super easy to make. Here it is:


First, make a sponge out of

3 1/2c. Wheat Flour (can also substitute 1/2c. of a grain mix for 1/2c. of this flour)
2 1/2c. Water
4tsp. Yeast

by mixing together the ingredients in your mixer until everything is wet. I remove the paddle after mixing, and throw a tea towel over the bowl.

Wait at least 20 minutes, but as long as 12 HOURS!! When you have a two-hour block of time that you know you'll be around for, finish making the dough by adding

4Tbsp. Butter (softened is best)
1tsp. salt (unless you use salted butter, then you leave this out)
1/4c. Plain Yogurt
1/4c. Honey
2 1/2c. Bread Flour, more or less (start with 2c.)

to the sponge. Use a dough hook to mix it together, and add remaining 1/2c. of flour a little at a time, until the dough pulls away from the bowl and is no longer sticky. You'll probably knead it for around 5 minutes, scraping the bowl down after additions, if necessary.

Next, spray two loaf pans with cooking spray. Flour your counter. Divide your dough into two. Roll the dough out as wide as the length of the pan, and as long as you can easily get it. Roll it up tightly, and stick it in the bread pan. Let rise until you get a nice crown, which should take around an hour. Bake at 350 degrees for 40 minutes. Cool on a rack until you can't stand to wait any longer, and enjoy!



27 May 2010

Job Update

Aaron's interview went very well. The offer has not been made yet, as things will have to go through human resources before that can happen, but we'll just say that the interview was less of an interview, and more of a product and market familiarization. The market looks a lot better than the report Aaron got from the market analysis firm led Microboards to believe.


Mark told Aaron that he had 200 resumes on his desk for this position, and when he thought about having to interview all these people, none of whom he knows, he thought of Aaron. With Aaron, he would know exactly what he was getting, and although they could get someone else for far less, they'd rather have someone they know can perform who can jump right into the position. They did talk salary a little bit, and it would be hard to say no to what Mark is thinking they would offer. It is really a sales position, so it would start off with a nice salary, then decrease when commissions get built up a little. It has some great potential.

The only hard part about the whole thing, in my mind, is the travel expectation. It could be as high as 40% at times, especially for the first two years. My thought is that Aaron is currently so frustrated when he comes home from work that he isn't emotionally able to spend quality time with the kids. If he were in a job he liked, even if he is gone 40% of the time, there will suddenly be 60% more time that he is happy coming home from work, right?

This is going to be a hard decision for Aaron. He'll be giving up the privilege of coming and going as he pleases, friends he's had for 11 years, and knowing what to expect. On the other hand, if he turns down this job, he will go into Microboards hating it even worse the next day. I think he should go for it.

The Competitor

Last night at around 9:30pm, Aaron got a message from the Vice President of Sales & Marketing for Primera, one of Microboards' top two competitors (Microboards used to be a distributor for Primera, but when Microboards bought a manufacturing facility and started building competitive products, Primera cut them off). He said he's looking for a Business Development Manager for Latin America, and thought Aaron was just the person. It isn't for their CD/DVD line, but a label printer line. Microboards briefly explored the market last year, but the president didn't want to put an investment into developing it, so it never went anywhere.


Aaron responded that he'd like to talk, and Mark emailed him right away to ask him if he was available to go to PACK Expo in June in Mexico City, and could he come over today or tomorrow to talk? Aaron emailed back that he is available during the trade show, and sure, he could find time to talk today. They worked out the details this morning, and Aaron has an appointment to meet with him at 4:30pm.

Aaron has a number of questions for Mark, so this isn't a done deal. Not only does Aaron not have any idea how much they will offer him, but he is wondering about the viability of the Latin American label printing market. This label printer is for food items, in particular items that don't have large runs, like specialty foods or local brands, where it is more cost effective to put a label on a package in-house. When Microboards explored the market, he bought a market analysis from a firm, and it didn't look like it was terribly huge worldwide. It was just a preliminary analysis, and not a terribly thorough one, so it is possible Primera has better information.

The company is in Plymouth, at the 494/394 junction. It is a 40 minute drive from here when there isn't traffic. Aaron doesn't like the idea of a long commute (neither do I), so we'd probably move to Minnetonka or Wayzata if he takes it.

Keep him in your prayers this afternoon!

18 May 2010

The Interview *UPDATED*

Aaron had his interview on Monday. He and the Director of Marketing were very much on the same page. She asked him a lot of questions which allowed him to demonstrate his knowledge of the industry and his competence in marketing. After asking him some questions about how he would handle some lead-generating, she started taking notes, as if he were a consultant, rather than an interviewee. Unfortunately, he was pretty sure he was more suited to her position than the manager position for which he was interviewing.


Along with that small detail, she is a 35-year-old single mom who looks like a model. He wouldn't feel comfortable burning the midnight oil with her. He does believe the company has the right culture and the right product. It just wouldn't be quite the right fit, most likely.

He is supposed to hear from her within the week. But, unless they were to come up with a different position for him (which was not discussed), rather than the marketing manager position they are hiring, he will probably not take it if it is offered.

*Update 5/20* Aaron got an email today, and was informed that they are going to continue interviewing other candidates for the position. Aaron is not surprised.

13 May 2010

Random Stuff

Aaron's interview was postponed to Monday, so there won't be any news today.


Tristin auditioned for a solo in "For the Longest Time" for his Spring Choir Concert. He got the longest solo in the song! He's really excited! That probably means he has a shot at getting into Show Choir for next year. Auditions for that are on the 20th of this month.

I'm giving a talk on the blessings of the priesthood on Sunday. There was obviously a lot in general conference to gather from, but if you have any talks or scriptures you want to direct my way, I could use more quotes.

I feel like it has been raining forever!! We're getting a little case of the grumpies in our house. Mommy included. I should take the kids for some playtime in the Lion's Den after lunch, before William's recorder concert this afternoon and let them run off some energy.


11 May 2010

Job Interview

Aaron had a phone interview with Gov Delivery's HR screener last week, and got a call for an in-person interview for the Marketing Manager position. He scheduled it for Thursday at 3pm. We're not sure whether it will be a position he will really be interested in or not. The Marketing Director is actually less experienced than he is, so it might not be a good fit. She doesn't have an MBA, either, so it might be awkward for her to hire him.


We'd have to move to the St. Paul side of town if he got it, as it is in downtown S.P. Therefore, it would have to be a really great fit, as well as have a really good compensation package. Selling this house wouldn't be easy, and Realtor fees will eat up a lot of the equity we have left in the house in this declining market.

I was excited about this interview until I wrote about it. Now, it doesn't seem so exciting.

05 May 2010

Puberty

I bet that, upon reading the headline of this post, you assumed it was going to be about one of the boys. Well, you were wrong.


I had my annual exam a couple of weeks ago, and I had been feeling a small, tender lump on my breast that week, so I told my doctor about it. He figured it was just a milk duct acting up. He didn't do a very thorough exam, like I have had in the past. He is a family doctor, not an OB/GYN, and he seemed like he was uncomfortable throughout the entire exam. So, when the lump got bigger over the following two weeks, I decided to go see an OB/GYN.

The appointment was yesterday. Dr. Freitas did a thorough exam, like I remember having in the past, and she could feel the lump. It didn't feel like a milk duct to her, so she set me up with a mammogram and ultrasound to explore it further. She said it was most likely just a cyst. While I was there, I also discussed my issues with my IUD and too much bleeding, and she offered up a possible solution. She gave me a sample pack of a low-dose birth control pill, and said that often just one month on the pill will allow enough estrogen to get back into the lining of the uterus that it will regulate and shorten my bleeding. If it reverts, then we can do it again after my next annual exam.

Anyway, back to the lump...

I went to have the mammogram done yesterday afternoon, which wasn't nearly as bad as I have heard from other people. Other than the part where I had to stand half-naked in front of a lab technician, it was not at all uncomfortable. There was a lot of waiting involved for both of the labs, but after two hours, I sat with the radiologist, who took the ultrasound from the lab technician, and showed me what we were seeing. He showed me that the bubbly-looking stuff was the normal layer of fat under the skin. He then showed me what normal breast tissue looks like. Then, he showed me what the lump looked like. He described it as a "knotty area," and it didn't have a layer of fat over it, under the skin, like the rest of the breast (which would explain the tenderness). This started to worry me, but then he explained that it was merely "prominent breast tissue." He couldn't explain why it was there, just that it was perfectly healthy breast tissue. It finally occurred to me what he was saying...

My breasts are growing. Hahahahaha! Maybe all of the pimples I've been getting over the past few months should have tipped me off. After 14 years of having babies, my body has decided to resume puberty at the age of 34. Hahahahaha!

25 April 2010

Released

It's been a great six years, or year and a half, whichever way you want to look at it.


I've been involved in Cub Scouts as a den leader, committee member, committee chair, cubmaster, and then the committee chair again, as part of my calling as 2nd counselor in the Primary presidency. But today, our presidency was released, and I'm off the hook - at least for now.

I was told by the bishop that he has something in the works for me, so I can't count on a long break. In fact, I don't know if I'll really get a break at all. The new Primary president asked me to keep Cub Scouts running until she has her new 2nd counselor called, which could be a while. I'm okay with that, although a clean break would be nice.

21 April 2010

"Eat food. Not too much. Mostly plants,"

Thus begins the book I've just started reading, "In Defense of Food." It seems kind of strange to tell people to eat food, but the book pointed out that most of what is sold in the grocery stores today isn't actually food. In fact, from 1906-1973, there was a law that any food that was modified from its original form must be labeled as "imitation" food. Anyone for some imitation ham (processed, water added, etc.)? imitation sour cream (low-fat sour cream)? imitation butter (margarine)? Suddenly, you wouldn't be so quick to purchase that imitation milk (skim, 1%, 2%).


It is very interesting to me that as soon as the "imitation" label was removed from these foods, the country got fat.